"Isn't Helping Always a Good Thing?"

There are times in life when we feel we know a way to help others that would help ease the burdens or ease a consequence in their life. Easing a consequence in someone's life is something to pray about - there is ALWAYS a consequence in our own life to be aware of. God has a plan to make everyone mature - we have to prayerfully consider our actions, responses to others. If we act out thoughtlessly, we might be pushing God's plans out of the way. Free will is to be taken seriously, it affects many people around us.


I pray that we not be so cavalier with the blessing God has given us - I pray that we ask Him what He gave provision to us For....then obediently utilize them His specific purposes.

Through the Heart of Christ,
Candace

What My Obedience to God Costs Other People

As they led Him away, they laid hold of a certain man, Simon . . . , and on him they laid the cross that he might bear it after Jesus —Luke 23:26

If we obey God, it is going to cost other people more than it costs us, and that is where the pain begins. If we are in love with our Lord, obedience does not cost us anything— it is a delight. But to those who do not love Him, our obedience does cost a great deal. If we obey God, it will mean that other people’s plans are upset. They will ridicule us as if to say, "You call this Christianity?" We could prevent the suffering, but not if we are obedient to God. We must let the cost be paid.

When our obedience begins to cost others, our human pride entrenches itself and we say, "I will never accept anything from anyone." But we must, or disobey God. We have no right to think that the type of relationships we have with others should be any different from those the Lord Himself had (see Luke 8:1-3).

A lack of progress in our spiritual life results when we try to bear all the costs ourselves. And actually, we cannot. Because we are so involved in the universal purposes of God, others are immediately affected by our obedience to Him. Will we remain faithful in our obedience to God and be willing to suffer the humiliation of refusing to be independent? Or will we do just the opposite and say, "I will not cause other people to suffer"? We can disobey God if we choose, and it will bring immediate relief to the situation, but it will grieve our Lord. If, however, we obey God, He will care for those who have suffered the consequences of our obedience. We must simply obey and leave all the consequences with Him.

Beware of the inclination to dictate to God what consequences you would allow as a condition of your obedience to Him. By Oswald Chambers